Two Years!!

It sometimes seems hard to believe, but Adrian and I have been together for two years now.  It's hard to believe because it feels like it should be longer. I do feel like I have known him forever, but it's only been two years.  It hasn't always been easy, but it's never been hard, if that makes any sense. 

I can't say I know without a shadow of a doubt what the next few years will bring, but I am confident of this. As long as Adrian and I continue to keep our communication up and are willing to work through things, everything will be fine.  He's a great guy and I have definitely fooled him lol, just kidding, I am not that evil.  We have fun together and at times it feels like we have to work through different areas of life, it never feels like we are working against each other, just with each other. 

I don't believe relationships should ever always be super easy, and if yours is then that's wonderful, but I believe to keep a relationship going strong you  have to put some effort into it. Sometimes it's about putting your wants aside to help your partner, sometimes it's about stepping up and proclaiming what you want which isn't easy, sometimes it is about rocking the boat to get over that hump of stagnation.  It's not like it's hard work, but it's making those decisions and compromising to meet in the middle.  Adrian does make this easier to do then anyone else I have ever been with, and I do believe it's because we are very compatible our personalities are not in conflict and our desires are similar. 

So now that we have two years under our belts I look forward to two more, twenty two more, one hundred and two more, however many more there are!!!

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